360° PARENTING – CULTURE & SOCIETY

360° PARENTING – CULTURE & SOCIETY

Written By Chandrashekhar Ojha

Culture is a multifaceted concept that encompasses various aspects of human life, including religion, science, livelihoods, pastimes, food, attire, architecture, and art. Instilling cultural awareness in our children is essential, as it provides them with a sense of identity and belonging. While this task may seem daunting, reconnecting with traditions and practices can make it more approachable. It involves sharing with our children the customs and values that our parents passed down to us. Although not everything we download may resonate with today’s children, many hold timeless value upon thoughtful consideration.

The significance of cultural education

As heirs to one of the world’s oldest civilisations, which still continues to thrive, we carry a legacy that has withstood numerous challenges over millennia. To ensure our children appreciate and take pride in this heritage, we must actively engage them in learning about our history and traditions. Without a solid cultural foundation, future generations may drift aimlessly, lacking a clear sense of belonging. Introducing them to our cultural roots offers stability and fosters pride in their heritage.

Effective strategies for cultural transmission

To successfully impart cultural values and knowledge, consider the following approaches:

  1. Religion and spirituality: Religion offers strength, peace, and guidance through life’s challenges. It’s crucial to teach children about our religious practices while also fostering respect for other faiths. True secularism involves honouring one’s beliefs while acknowledging the rights of others to do the same. Encouraging a comprehensive study of various religions allows children to make informed choices about their spiritual paths.
  2. History: Understanding our history helps prevent the recurrence of past mistakes and paves the way for a brighter future. While schools provide a broad overview, parents should delve into family histories and local narratives to offer a more personalised perspective. Sharing stories of ancestors and regional events can deepen children’s connection to their roots.
  3. Art and craft: Exposure to traditional arts and crafts fosters appreciation for our cultural expressions. Beyond academic curricula, parents should introduce children to cultural heritage through visits to monuments, museums, art galleries, exhibitions, and performances. Such experiences broaden their understanding and appreciation of diverse art forms. Sometimes the children might stumble upon their true calling from such experiences; you never know.
  4. Values and etiquette: Teaching daily practices – such as greetings, mealtime rituals, and respectful interactions – instils a sense of responsibility and respect. Consistent insistence on such practices ensures that children internalise them, contributing to their development as considerate individuals.
  5. Literature: Classical literature serves as a window into our cultural psyche, revealing insights into our traditions, values, and societal norms. While original texts may be challenging, modern retellings from publishers like Amar Chitra Katha make these stories accessible. Reading together not only educates but also strengthens the parent-child bond. The contemporary writing and children’s literature also plays a great role in moulding the personality and psyche of children and must be introduced timely manner.  
  6. Language: Language is a cornerstone of culture. Communicating with children in our native tongue ensures they grasp the nuances of our heritage and connect with a rich literary tradition. In a globalised world, maintaining proficiency in our mother tongue is a gift that keeps our cultural narratives alive. It doesn’t mean that the national and international languages could be ignored. No, they are a must, and the educational institutes would take care of them, but who else would work on your mother tongue, if not you?  My policy about languages is very simple: your language should be your strength, not your weakness and the more the merrier, as I am blessed with the beautiful universes of more than a dozen Indian languages.

Fostering social awareness and responsibility

Beyond individual culture, understanding societal roles is vital. Teaching children about community interactions, responsibilities, and contributions nurtures empathy and a sense of duty. Involving them in household chores, community service, and discussions about societal issues cultivates a well-rounded, socially conscious individual.

Promoting environmental and gender awareness

Instilling environmental consciousness ensures children grow up respecting and protecting their surroundings. Similarly, eliminating gender biases within the family by avoiding stereotypical assignments of tasks or roles fosters equality and mutual respect. Such practices prepare children to contribute positively to a diverse and evolving society.

Conclusion

Embedding cultural, social, and environmental awareness in our children’s upbringing equips them to navigate the world with confidence, empathy, and pride. By actively engaging in these practices, we ensure that our rich heritage and values are preserved and appreciated by future generations.